What Praying Without Ceasing Definitely Is Not and Some Thoughts about What It Might Be

First Thessalonians 5:16 has got to be one of the most intimidating verses in the Bible. I first encountered it in the old King James Version:  “Pray without ceasing.” 

“How is that possible?” I thought. “That can’t be a good translation. Maybe one of the other versions will provide a loophole.”

  • ESV:  Pray without ceasing

  • NIV:  Pray continually

  • NIRV:  Never stop praying

  • Message:  Pray all the time

Not much help. No matter how you translate it, I guess this verse is pretty clear.

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During all three summers between my college years, I worked at an awesome 4-H camp on the eastern end of Long Island. Between my first and second summers, I came to know Jesus personally, and when I returned for year two, I wanted to let all the counselors know about my new-found faith.

At the end of each summer, the camp hosted a farewell thank-you banquet for the staff. We especially looked forward to the part where the counselors give each other humorous awards. Mine for my first “Christian summer” was the “Practice What You Preach” award, signed by Jesus Christ. Ouch!  Not so funny. Apparently, I did a pretty good job of talking about my faith but that was about it.

To rectify this shortcoming, I resolved during the following summer to CONSCIOUSLY think about God all day long. I figured this would increase the likelihood that I would remember to act more like a Christian. So I stopped whatever I was doing every ten minutes or so and thought about him. If I forgot and went twenty minutes, I would confess my sin and promise to do better.

Well, that practice lasted about a day and a half before I realized it would quickly make me a candidate for a straitjacket. A variation of this obsessive practice that some people follow is feeling they have to pray about EVERY decision, down to whether they should have oatmeal or Raisin Bran for breakfast or what color socks to wear. Fortunately, I never succumbed to this pitfall but I know some who have.

So if these crazy behaviors are what praying without ceasing is NOT, what SHOULD it look like? I’m sure there are many different ways to practice praying without ceasing, but here are three possible applications.

  1. God has blessed me with hundreds of wonderful friends and acquaintances. Throughout the day, some of them pop into my head. Or I might see someone who physically resembles a friend. In that moment, I can shoot up a quick prayer asking God to bless my friend and accomplish in their lives what they need. And I also pray about a particular need I might be aware of.

  2. As I hear a news story reporting about some kind of tragedy, I can ask for God’s presence, peace and grace for those affected. I can also pray as important political policy issues are reported on – that leaders would honor God with their decisions.

  3. Author Ken Boa suggests that a way to remind ourselves of God’s presence and glory is to specifically notice and give praise for at least one aspect of the natural world each day. This can simply be contemplating an unusual cloud formation, the intricacies of a leaf’s veins, or the exquisite velvety fur on a Weimaraner puppy.

These three practices should be permeated with grace – no self-judgment or condemnation if you don’t perfectly carry them out.

Another aspect of praying without ceasing is keeping your relationship with the Lord so open that you’re receptive if he wants to show you something in particular. Going back to the socks example, although you shouldn’t obsess over the color decision, if – for some odd reason – God does want you to choose blue over black, you should follow his prompting. This is a trivial example, but it illustrates a mindset of receptivity to things Holy Spirit may be trying to get through to you.

I hope you see the difference between my 4-H camp OCD application of praying without ceasing and the grace-filled practice of enjoying your walk with the Lord and responding to whatever he brings my way.

A final thought. In addition to “praying without ceasing” as described here, spending dedicated times in prayer is an important part of the Christian life and one I need to do more faithfully.